Relocating in itself can feel overwhelming. But relocating with children? That’s a completely different level of stress.
But with the right steps, what can at first appear as a significant challenge becomes an empowering journey.
From choosing the right school abroad to helping your kids embrace a new culture, here’s your five-step guide to making the move a positive family experience.
TL;DR: 5 Key Steps for Kenyan Parents Moving Abroad
1. Start open conversations early
2. Choose a school that matches your child’s age and learning style
3. Preserve routines and comforts during the move
4. Ease them into the new culture with curiosity and patience
5. Prioritise building new social connections quickly
Start Talking Early — and Involve Them in the Journey
How do I prepare my child emotionally for moving overseas?
The key to unlocking a positive relocation experience is communication.
Begin by being open and age-appropriate. For little ones (ages 3–7), use storybooks or playful examples to explain what’s happening. Older children and teens often appreciate being included in the process — ask for their input, listen to their concerns, and validate their feelings.
🧠 Tip:
Share visuals like the national flag of your new home, or a map showing where you’ll live in relation to Kenya. This helps young minds grasp the change.
Find a School That Fits — Academically and Socially
How do I find the right school for my child abroad?
While the Kenyan education system has influences from the UK, educational systems elsewhere vary, so understanding your options is key:
- Ages 3–6: Bilingual or Montessori-style preschools can ease transition.
- Ages 7–12: Consider international schools offering the British, IB, or 8-4-4 curriculum.
- Teens: Choose institutions that offer IGCSEs, A-Levels, or IB Diplomas to align with future university goals.
✅ Prioritise schools with diversity, strong student support, and a welcoming expat environment.
💡 Pro tip:
Reach out to fellow Kenyans through diaspora WhatsApp groups or community forums to get real, on-the-ground feedback.
Keep Their Routine Familiar (As Much as Possible)
How can I help my child cope with the stress of moving?
Children — especially younger ones — rely on routine for emotional security. While moving disrupts the norm, try to maintain familiar habits: same bedtime routine, comfort food from home, or even a favourite playlist.
Ideas by age:
- Toddlers: Pack a travel bag with familiar toys, books, and snacks from back home.
- Primary-age kids: Let them help pack and decorate their new room — it gives them a sense of control.
- Teens: Involve them in planning social or school activities in the new location.
🧳 Bonus tip:
Carry a small item that connects your child to home — like a kikoi, a beaded bracelet, or a family photo. These simple symbols of “home” can provide unexpected comfort in unfamiliar places.
Embrace the New Culture — Slowly but Surely
How do I support my child through culture shock?
Whether you’re moving to Australia, the UK, or the UAE, your child may experience culture shock. The key is steady exposure and a positive mindset:
- Learn as a family: Try language learning apps or TV shows together. This is especially useful if moving to a French, German, or Arabic-speaking country.
- Celebrate cultural differences: Try new cuisines, holidays, and traditions together.
- Stay grounded: Keep traditions from home alive too — like Sunday braais or bedtime prayers.
🌍 Ask your relocation consultant about cultural training programmes — they’re often included in relocation packages.
Help Them Make New Friends
How can I help my child make friends abroad?
Leaving behind classmates and cousins can be tough. Help your child settle by:
- Signing up for sports, music, or church youth groups
- Joining Kenyan diaspora associations in your new city
- Using school platforms to connect with other families
🤝 Relocation isn’t just about geography — it’s about rebuilding community.
Final Thoughts
Relocating with kids isn’t just about logistics — it’s about laying the foundation for a global future. With open communication, the right resources, and support from an experienced relocation partner, your child can flourish in a new country.
At Crown Relocations Kenya, we understand the needs of Kenyan families — from curriculum continuity to cultural comfort.
Whether you’re moving to Australia, Canada, the UK or beyond, we’re here to guide your family every step of the way.
Start your journey with confidence – contact us to speak to a relocation specialist today!
FAQs
Is it better to relocate with younger or older children?
There’s no perfect time. Younger children adapt quickly but need routine. Older kids may take longer emotionally but benefit from greater understanding of the opportunity.
What if my child struggles with homesickness?
Stay connected to Kenya — through video calls, music, food, or stories. Create space to talk openly about what they miss and celebrate both their Kenyan identity and new experiences.
What are the best school options for Kenyan expats abroad?
British, IB, and American curriculums are commonly preferred for ease of transition. Some schools also offer Kenyan cultural clubs or Swahili language programmes.
