Relocating in itself can feel overwhelming. But relocating with children? A completely different type of stress.
But with the right steps, what can at first appear as a significant challenge becomes an empowering journey.
From choosing the right school abroad to helping your kids embrace a new culture, here’s your five-step guide to making the move a positive family experience.
TL;DR: 5 Key Steps for South African Parents Moving Abroad
1. Start open conversations early
2. Choose a school that matches your child’s age and learning style
3. Preserve routines and comforts during the move
4. Ease them into the new culture with curiosity and patience
5. Prioritise building new social connections quickly
Start Talking Early — and Involve Them in the Journey
How do I prepare my child emotionally for moving overseas?
The key to unlocking a positive relocation experience is communication.
Begin by being open and age-appropriate. For little ones (ages 3–7), use storybooks or playful examples to explain what’s happening. Older children and teens often appreciate being included in the process — ask for their input, listen to their concerns, and validate their feelings.
🇿🇦 Tip for SA families:
Share visuals like the national flag of your new home, or a map showing where you’ll live in relation to South Africa. This helps young minds grasp the change.
Find a School That Fits — Academically and Socially
How do I find the right school for my child abroad?
While the South African education system shares similarities to the UK and Australia, education systems elsewhere vary, so understanding your options is key:
- Ages 3–6: Look into play-based early years or dual-language nursery options.
- Ages 7–12: Look for curriculum alignment — e.g., British or IB systems common in many global schools.
- Teens: Ensure the school offers globally recognised qualifications like the International Baccalaureate (IB), IGCSEs or A-Levels.
Many South African expat families opt for international schools for continuity and smoother transitions.
✏️ Resources to help:
- International Schools Database
- South African expat groups on Facebook and LinkedIn
Keep Their Routine Familiar (As Much as Possible)
How can I help my child cope with the stress of moving?
Children — especially younger ones — rely on routine for emotional security. While moving disrupts the norm, try to maintain familiar habits: same bedtime routine, comfort food from home, or even a favourite playlist.
Ideas by age:
- Toddlers: Pack a travel bag with familiar toys, books, and snacks from back home.
- Primary-age kids: Let them help pack and decorate their new room — it gives them a sense of control.
- Teens: Involve them in planning social or school activities in the new location.
🇿🇦 Top Tip:
Don’t forget their favourite rooibos tea or Marmite — a taste of home can work wonders in those first few weeks abroad!
Embrace the New Culture — Slowly but Surely
How do I support my child through culture shock?
Whether you’re moving to Australia, the UK, or the UAE, your child may experience culture shock. The key is steady exposure and a positive mindset:
- Learn as a family: Try language learning apps or TV shows together.
- Celebrate cultural differences: Try new cuisines, holidays, and traditions together.
- Stay grounded: Keep traditions from home alive too — like Sunday braais or bedtime prayers.
🌍 Ask your relocation consultant about cultural training programmes — they’re often included in relocation packages.
Help Them Make New Friends
How can I help my child make friends abroad?
Friendship helps children settle quickly. Try these depending on their age:
- Young children: Join local toddler groups or sport clubs — these are great icebreakers.
- Primary and high schoolers: Encourage involvement in extracurriculars like netball, music, or debating.
- Teenagers: Help them find online expat communities for teens before the move.
👫Here’s an idea:
Involve them in volunteer work — many South African families value giving back, and it’s a great way to build community.
Final Thoughts
Relocating with kids isn’t just about logistics — it’s about laying the foundation for a global future. With open communication, the right resources, and support from an experienced relocation partner, your child can flourish in a new country.
At Crown Relocations South Africa, we understand the needs of Kenyan families — from curriculum continuity to cultural comfort.
Whether you’re moving to Australia, Canada, the UK or beyond, we’re here to guide your family every step of the way.
Start your journey with confidence – contact us to speak to a relocation specialist today!
FAQs
What is the best age to relocate with a child from South Africa?
Younger kids often adjust more quickly, but older children benefit from being more aware and involved. It depends on your family’s goals, schooling needs, and destination.
Will my child struggle with a new school system?
It’s possible — but many South African children are well-prepared academically. International schools often offer support programmes to help with transition and integration.
What if my child doesn’t speak the local language?
Most international or private schools offer ESL (English as a Second Language) or language support. Kids are resilient — with time and exposure, they usually adapt well.
